an e-commerce practitioner, we are likely to do the same thing every day. We will feel boring for a long time. In the process of working, we have no one to inquire about it. In this process, we are sure to feel very confused and can not find the direction. I would like to think of what I work so hard every day for. At this time, our mentality will start to have problems.
Recently, I saw the Korean drama “no life” before. Among the four new professionals in the play, the most important thing I care about is not Zhang Lei, the hero, but Zhang Baiqi, who has many defects in his character. Famous university students, two years of overseas language study, one year’s work travel, all kinds of learning to dominate the awards, he is also down, the resume is not too much better than others. There is no doubt that he is the best of the same group of new people who have entered the company. He has always been a compliment from birth to internship, and that’s why he is confident that he will make the best results in the field and be better than others. After becoming a full-time worker, he was assigned to the new department and submitted a project report. He could not wait to win recognition without success. His immediate supervisor just let him keep his accounts, make the forms and store the goods without contacting him. On the other hand, Zhang grai, the only high school diploma he has always looked down upon, has come to prominence in his work and even received high praise. His heart became increasingly restless, extremely unbalanced, and felt angry that he had no place to play. He began to contradict his superiors and express his dissatisfaction, but he found that his work remained unchanged. At last, he could not bear to start sending resumes to other units and preparing to quit his present job. From the beginning of my love to the sympathy I had not been reused, until this moment, I began to think he was a weak person. It is clear that there is no display of the bright resume and ambitious ambition, but also the rules of the workplace and the interpersonal communication. No matter in any way, it is the strong and the elite of the society, but it loses to the state of mind. Because of his impatience, he was eager to prove his strength; he did not want to continue to do the most basic work because of his high hands and low hands; and because of so many psychological imbalances, he wanted to resign.
In fact, no matter what you do, if your attitude is not fixed, it will bring negative emotions to you. With a lot of negative emotions, it is difficult for a person to treat life rationally.
In contrast, Zhang grai is a man of excellent mentality. Because of his low education, he was mocked by other newcomers and was bullied by some company’s predecessors. Because it was a contract worker, his hard – prepared project could not belong to his own name, and his career life was more difficult than a white flag. He will be sad, but he will never complain. He puts his concerns on himself instead of others. Lack of education, experience is not enough, that is to work hard to learn, let themselves adapt to this job; the project can allow themselves to take over to the last natural very good, but if not, the early efforts are not cost, to themselves is a growth. Because Zhang grai corrected his mindset, he gradually integrated himself into this group, and his work became more and more handy. A good attitude determines whether you have a good state. If the state of mind is not good, even the strong person with great ability will become weak. Fortunately, the later Zhang white flag is aware of his own problems, no longer aim at work, and no longer contend for other people. It is really doing things and taking a positive attitude to meet the challenges of the workplace, and the more the work is done.
There is no big difference between people. The real difference is mentality.
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